when you talk about me...

assalamualaikum..
nama aku hafiz afham...aku tinggal dekat shah ala..
aku belajar di SBPI Rawang..senior year!!2011
blog ini aku tulis pasal diri aku..hati aku..kawan aku..
ada juga aku tulis pasal islam sikit...


Posted ..
my name Afham hafiz ... I live near shah alam ..
I am studying in final year SBPI Rawang ..! 2011
This blog I write articles myself .. my friends .. my heart ..
I also write articles have little islam ...


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Hafiz Afham mon nom ... Je vis près de Shah Alam ..
Je suis étudiant en finale l'an SBPI Rawang ..! 2011
Ce blog je écrire des articles moi .. mes amis .. mon coeur ..
J'écris aussi des articles ont peu l'islam ...



Friday, November 26, 2010

spike to the heart of her dream!!






the name of God ...
forward with the girl who always brighten my life ..
Nay, indeed we were created for something ..
despite the insults and slander coloring our lives ....
who would harass the soul, but maybe it was a petunjung of the Almighty ..
even many who hit the test, return to God is the creator ..Nay, it is impossible for us to get our own expense who could not bear ...
there's the wisdom behind it ..hold fast to :...
" sometimes not what we like best to us what we hate tp may be the best for us ....brave face twists of this life is not easy because we surf boat for life in the sea of people who increasingly brutal and cruel ....they forget about preaching and asks with wisdom ..they also forget about the importance of keeping the heart and feelings org laen ... they may also forget about the importance of brotherhood ..




However, keep in mind is sometimes criticism that they have correctly ...
and it's good for you, O girl ..Do not you just look at who is negative .. take a positive ...Ah, the advice was to build a private Muslim!MUST remember that legal cover his private parts .. extend your scarf ... indeed risen right bun is haram ...is not with you to cover but the fact is they who like nudity ...



true Muslim must stare down her .. especially with men who are not Institute of Public Administration ...
intercourse keep your manners O girl ...Displaying away your "son" is your dream .. they may cause you fall into hell ...may not have time for love ...jage is manners when dealing with a man .. Guard your honor ...

Posted break the friendship with you too trivial ... forgive them assuming they have made a mistake .. So who is their best of you .. with forgiving before the requested ...
treat them like yesterday ... you know the newstay away from the nature of revenge from the heart ...do the revolution and the transformation towards hunting pleasure of Allah ...Posted repeat your mistakes and sins ago ..MUSLIMAH be TRUE .... just tap your piety distinguishes camp ...Turn to God because he always be there ... inshallah ... you find your way!

p / s: my hope is for a girl who is the heart of dikala joys and sorrows,camp in the days to come as Muslimah dream man .... InsyaAllah ..









Thursday, November 25, 2010

L0vE or affEcti0N?



Two distinguished want hard feelings, love comes what? love is love and interrelated ... Yes, it is TRUE! These two things are interrelated. Why love is hard to let out. especially male ... If women have no problem ... they really love their partners but there is no shame to show affection to each other. 
What about the friendship between a man and a woman who called Good Friends, Friends' Meeting ... he's a nauseating feeling, ask for opinions and cater Familiar! One is not between men and women be friends? the question of who already have an answer yet unresolved with different aspects of the cliff with a time of the Prophet used to be. Before, only women wear only and FORBIDDEN BLACK wearing flowered patterns, not in the present .... transformation of different problems, first consider an important aspect of who and outside views.
 

Before the time of the Prophet a woman was not allowed to leave the house unless desperate or have a thing or things you want to helping like settled on the battlefield. Many women now who are in cities, towns and so forth. Means that the social system has also changed!
Once men rarely speak with women except if there is anything important, but today men and women be friends ... Sometimes we would talk and chat. One of the? Ask a more discerning ...
However, because this, too, began to arise a feeling love, affection and love ..! sometimes they are not friends with or joking manner, talking to ... but fun to fight alone, they met at a big match ... Marry a woman for four-Beauty-Descent-Property-ReligionAnd choose good faith.ask love because God loves people
Love is a deep meaning, and just as pledged in God, prophets, parents and the husband and wife .. For what? because the love was born with a sense of gratitude, respect and reward. Who should we love God because he favors ANY provider, delivering SHEET messenger because the struggle, because SACRIFICE parents raise and educate us, husband and wife because of their mutual understanding and sacrifice as well.
simple love ... Love your friend who is a lot of help, guide and remind you about this life who plots...
 

God willing ...
 

my l0ve just for you .. but is that lovE?



No expression or expression, in words and style of conduct not shed the feeling that ... but the struggle still existed and requested he be released. Because of limitations laws themselves only silence, let it fight the feeling of shame. Mental suffering and miserable, but better Displaying the fire burned away the suffering. Jihad!

When the eye point, the behavior is not easily made it myself ... more so if you meet and talk, tongue, body stiff ... speechless ... Is this love? or .. I do not know! Why is the tongue in front of dumb to say, the body hardens like a flood of electric shock across it. He is also a normal human being. Why? What is this feeling that haunts the soul .. Is it love?
Is there love at first sight? love is not born of love and sacrifice ... I'm confused.If I'm interested in beauty, whether it is said to love?If I am interested in the character, whether it is said to love?If I'm attracted to his voice, whether it is said to love?




People say that love does not need a reason! So I had fallen in love is true .. pounds because I do not know why I like him. But this feeling is torture!
So what should I do if my guess was correct. Stuck! I feel guilty toward him, because these feelings are always asking me look at her face ... find it anywhere ... reflected in all the time ... do not miss is ... I feel guilty sgt. Forgive me, O Heroine, if you think I have put your dignity as a woman I confess! but I can not stand with my soul. I hope you forgive me!
I am again in my guilt, O God forgive me ... if my love for the creatures more than I love Thee again .. it hurts my heart, I like me who do not know thanks! Forgive me my sins O Allah! Heroine on one of my pardon my fault!
It is true that persecution of women for men ...

Wednesday, November 24, 2010

Girl Missionary

Legal charitable mission must syarie, do not fall as long as there is no government responsible for the practice and defense of Islam, even after the establishment of an Islamic state is still obliged to defend the Islamic nation. Any negligence in not doing it is sin.
Who's duty is Fardu `ain, not kifayah. Kifayah If ever he was obliged to do because questions of Islam and the enforcement of Islamic countries has not been completed.
Whatever the status of the duty of preaching, believers must do, because if true it is obligatory `ain, and we do not do that we would sin, if we do we have to settle their obligations as well rewarded. If true it is obligatory kifayah and we do so we will get a reward. In all the circumstances to do is gain. In certain circumstances does not do it might be a sin.
Came the question of whether there are legal differences between men and women in preaching. Is it mandatory only for men only and not women?
~ And those who believe men and women, some of them (are) a help to each other. They told (do) what is right, forbidding dishonor, prayer, practice regular charity and they obey Allah and His Messenger. They will be blessed by Allah, surely Allah is Mighty, Wise..:: Letter at paragraph 71-Touba
Visible unity of cooperation between men and women doing missionary works towards the strengthening of Islam and its laws.
The above explanation shows that Muslim women are no doubt a special and important role in carrying out charitable mission to complement the role of men. In fact, in some cases their role is more important, even overcoming male roles, especially in areas dominated by women. This is because women have some special privileges in terms of willingness, ability, personality traits, mental and feeling different from their male counterparts.
It is clear that the duty of preaching the same between men and women. All the argument requires that apply to the woman missionary. All submissions must jama `ie charities apply to women. Duties of wala 'and `ammah khassah also must be on women. The fact of today shows that women's involvement in missionary and community work is important, because women are one of the sources of Islamic forces. Not using this power is a waste on existing strengths. Apart from that in Islam the women in the fight against Islam, but to see women as the most important entry in an effort to destroy Islam, so women must be made aware.In this connection the most suitable women are aware of women.
The earliest Muslim community to give practical examples of the role of women in the mission. Umm 'Atiyah al-Ansariyyah example, makes her the focus of the men in the acquisition of knowledge. He was known for the activity in providing advice and communicate the teachings of Islam among the various qabilah at the time of the Prophet Baliau been tortured and imprisoned. But his spirit is not broken.
According to Zainab al-Ghazali in his book entitled "Ila Ibnati, the people of today are in need of women to play an active role in the mission. This is because the European colonizers to exploit women in sowing the seeds of evil and the collapse of moral values and humanity. Muslim women are weak and shallow holding religious knowledge will continue to be a propaganda tool of the devil is evil ditajanya popularize the mass media, whether print or electronic media.
According to his research, women are the most qualified person be brought to operate a mission among them. They understand the nature, position and type of problems faced by their people. As such they are better able to penetrate the hearts mad'u the appropriate approach and is more compatible with their nature.
With the assertion by the Islamic texts on missionary duty are not limiting Gencer, practicing Muslim woman in the beginning, reality and practice of Muslim women is no more reason for women not to engage in missionary work. The reason for focusing efforts to educate children at home can no longer be an argument not to engage in missionary activities outside the home. In the very inverse relationship if any women are not prepared to engage in missionary activities outside the home to a variety of arguments Practice ie, while at the same time they work outside the home to hold government positions.
Awake, O true Muslim ..whom God aid religion?you guys! Takbir! Allahuakbar!

Thursday, November 18, 2010

coretan untuk Si Gadis

bismillah...
kehadapan si gadis yg selalu menyerikan hidupku.. sedarlah sesungguhnya kita dicipta untuk sesuatu..
walaupun tomahan dan fitnah mewarnai hidup kita....yg pasti mengusik jiwa, tapi mungkin ia satu petunjung dari yang Maha Kuasa..
biarpun pelbagai ujian yg melanda, kembali lah kpd tuhan penciptamu..
sedarlah, mustahil untuk kita terima beban yg kita sendiri tidak mampu pikul... pasti ada hikmah disebalik itu..
berpeganglah dengan :..."kadang kala apa yg kita suka bukan yg terbaik utk kita tp apa yg kita benci boleh jadi yg terbaik utk kita....
tabah lah menghadapi liku kehidupan ini kerana bukan mudah utk kita melayari bahtera kehidupan di lautan manusia yg semakin kejam dan zalim....
mereka lupa tentang cara berdakwah dan tegur dgn berhikmah..
mereka juga lupa ttg pentingnya menjaga hati dan perasaan org laen... mereka juga mungking lupa tentang pentingnya menjaga ikatan persaudaraan..
namun, ingat lah kadang kala teguran mereka itu ada betulnya...
dan ada baiknya untuk dirimu wahai si gadis..
jgn lah kau hanya memangdang yg negetif..ambillah yg positif...
sedarlah, teguran itu membina peribadi muslimah!!
ingatlah menutup aurat itu WAJIB hukum nya.. labuhkan lah tudung mu... sesungguhnya meninggi kan sanggul adalah HARAm hukumnya...
jgn lah dikau menjadi mereka yg bertudung tetapi terlangjang...
muslimah sejati perlu menundukkan pandangan nya.. teutamanya dgn lelaki yg bkn muhrim...
jagalah adab pergaulan mu wahai si gadis...
jauhi dirimu drpd "pUTEra" idaman mu itu.. mungkin mereka punca dirimu jatuh ke NEraKa...
mungkin belum tiba masanya untuk bercinta...
jage lah adab ketika berdepan dgn lelaki.. peliharalah maruah mu...
jgn pula kau putuskan persahabatan dgn perkara remeh... maafkan mereka andainya mereka ada melakukan kesalahan.. jadi lah mereka yg paling baik antara kamu..dgn memberi maaf sebelum di minta...
anggaplah mereka seperti kau baru kenal semalam...
jauhi sifat dendam dari hatimu...
lakukanlah revolusi dan transfomasi kearah memburu keredhaan ALLAH...
jgn kau ulangi kesilapan dan dosa yg lalu..
jadilah MUSLIMAH SEJATI.... keran hanya ketakwaan yg dpt membezakan kalian...
kembalilah kpd ALLAH krn he always be there... inshallah...you find your way!!!


p/s: diriku ini amat berharap agar gadis yg selama ini menghiburkan hati dikala suka dan duka,
dpt menempuh hari2 mendatang sbgai muslimah impian lelaki....inshaAllah..

Saturday, October 23, 2010

silent is gold talk is rubbish!!

kadang2 kite rse mcm sume bende tak kne.. tak abis2 dugaan dtg.. smpai kite rse mlz nk idup kt dunia nie.. ye lah tak selesai yang satu dh dtg mcm2.... tapi....
ingt lh teman.. jgn fikir sume mslah tu sebagai beban, tp anggap je mcm kwn.. selesaikn dgn usaha dan tawakal..
sabar pula ramuan utama.. kembali lah kpd ALLAH krn HE ALWAYS BE THERE... jgn cepat putus asa.. abaikan manusia yg mEnghina & mengata... biarpun satu dunia bercerita.. lantakkan mereka biarkan dunia dgn idup mrk!! krn bukan nye senang nk melayari bahtera di lautan manusia yg kini semakin buta dan zalim..
mereka kini suka menuduh membabi buta.. (babi pun tak mcm tu!!) menfitnah dan mengata tanpa usul periksa...
tak pernah nk memahami keadaan dan situasi idup seseorang... tak pernah nk mendekati mereka yg lemah...
hanya tahu menjauhkan diri dgn harapan seseorang tu berubah!! bodoh la...
mereka yg berdakwah perlu lah phm konsep... jgn ckp tak ingt dunia.. takot2 kne kt keturunan kite..
jgn menyesal di kemudian hari... idup ni ibarat roda... cermin lah ditri kita...
masyarakat perlu matang... jgn berfikir hanya di SEPINTAR...cuba bukak persepsi kita pandang lah kehadapan!!
bila lagi melayu nak maju dan berjaya... mne kn pergi perjuang islam???


 

Friday, October 22, 2010

dunia ini KETERLALUAN!!

slm...
aku dah xnk idup lagi kt dunia ni..
mcm2 dah aku lalui sepanjang berpuluh2 taon aku idup..
sume org xnk terima aku.. bkn aku nk jadi mcm nie..
parents aku pown xmintak la aku jadi mcm nie..
bkn salah aku..
aku dah cuba!! bkan sekali, tapi berjuta kali!!
namun xberjaya....
tp, knp dunia nk benci cgt dgn aku? ape slh aku??
aku xpenah wat salah kat org laen..
aku xpernah cari pasal dgn korang!!
tp, knp?? knp?? knp??
korunk x abis2!! nk hina aku?? korunk kutuk aku..
maybe selama nie aku diam..
bkn sbb aku lemah atau suke..
tp, coz aku xnk keruh kan persaudaraan la kononnye.. hmm.. hampeh!!
aku yg merana..
lantak korunk la...
jgn satu arie nanti korunk nangis..
korunk terkesima... korunk byk masalah... pikir la blk ape yg korunk penah wat kat aku??
maybe time tu blum trlambat utk korunk mintak maap kt aku...
hmmm...
sampai kn slm aku kat anak isteri korunk...
sampai kan jga slm aku kt cucu cicit korunk.. dgn ucapan "ASSALAMUALAIKUM"...